Now the real question is
Where is the middle ground?
Does a middle ground exist between these two types of girls?
If you have found a girl that is not only a good long term partner but also one that you find sexually attractive,
We have a winner… bing bing bing bing!!!
Hold on to her.
I am not talking about a girl that you love and have just accepted that she is cute but could do better. I’m not talking about a girl that is just OK in the bedroom and does what she does to get by. But a girl that you get on with spiritually, sexually, emotionally, in business, in play, in life goals, in hobbies, in personality…
There must be some compromise – but you might as well shoot for the stars right?
Are you settling for the extremes above? Do you have the equivalent of a mother figure that is bossing you around?
Why are you giving her the right to do so?
If she really loved you she would understand that you like to live your life a certain way.